Finding your true love is, can be one of the best feelings you’ll ever come across. But, maintaining a relationship can be hard as it is, of course, not a one-sided thing. You need efforts from both the end to keep the bonding alive in the long run. Ups and downs will be there in every relationship, but if you and your partner aren’t able to cope up with those hurdles then, it’s a sign that you should give up on him or her and part your ways with each other and move on.
Here are seven signs which will indicate that your relationship is inching towards the end.
1. YOU ARE NOT A PART OF YOUR PARTNER’S LIFE.
If you love somebody and you are in a serious relationship with them then, you should be able to share what’s going on in your life and be able to give proper space to your partner. If your partner hesitates from making you a part of their life and refrains from sharing their life matters with you thinking that their life is entirely theirs and, do not consider taking your opinions in their life decisions then, it’s time that you talk about the matter with your partner.
2. AVOIDING FUTURE PLANS TOGETHER
Of course, the final destination of every love story is marriage. But, if your partner continually avoids discussing these matters even after spending enough of time together, then it is probably the time to wave goodbye since it is of no use to stay with a person who is unsure of his or her final destination with you!
3. YOU DON’T SHARE SAME GOALS
Opposite attracts. True, indeed. But, make sure that your goals and that of your partner’s intentions are not poles apart since it will take entire of your lives to clear the gap between you both. And, you both wouldn’t be happy either. So, choose a life partner with whom who can share your goals with and achieve them with each other’s support.
4. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
Communication plays a crucial role in every relationship. If a bonding lacks an effective communication, there are chances that the bonding may not last for a more extended period since bottling up one’s emotions and feelings can be a negative sign in any relationship. You should have the freedom and liberty to express yourselves to your partner about whatever you feel. However, if your relationship has a shortage of effective communication, then step forward and do something about it.
5. YOUR PARTNER IS AFRAID TO SHOW YOU TO THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Make sure you get into a relationship with someone who is proud to have you and will do anything to keep you. And, not the one who would be afraid of introducing you to their family or even friends. If you have been together for quite a while and, still your partner fails to tell about you to his or her family then, there are fewer chances that the relationship is going to last in the long term.
6. FORGIVE AND FORGET – EVEN WHEN IT’S NOT THE RIGHT THING
Your partner is continuously breaking your trust but, you being a bigger person try to forgive them every time makes them take you for granted. Do not let your partner feel that they can do whatever they want even if it means hurting and betraying you behind your back. Curb that relationship then and there itself as you deserve more than that!
7. YOU GAVE YOUR EVERYTHING, YET FAILED
Even after you’ve given your one hundred one per cent by trying to communicate, fixing the ups and downs, giving enough freedom and space for a better relationship, yet you find yourself in the same place, then it’s time to move on as links do not work on one-sided efforts. Ingredients of love, support and understanding should rise from both the sides. Try going with someone who is confident about you and won’t let a tear roll down your cheeks. Understand your worth and don’t settle for anything less.
“Don’t be someone’s second anything when you are worthy of being someone’s everything.”