Every time I see a girl flashing her engagement ring or a sea of women squealing over their engagement rings and bent over wedding magazines. I have an impulse to grab them by the hand, sit them down, and provide them the much-needed counsel. It’s not that I’m against the idea of women marrying while in their 20s; I just believe it is better to wait until they are 30. Here is a list of why marriage later is fruitful and more successful.
1. By your 30s, you most likely have sewed your oats.
You’ve dated around, know what’s out there, and have a bright idea of what exactly you want. You have the sense of a world and its inhabitants, your judgment is better, and you become smart and keep yourself from falling for a wrong guy.
2. You have a strong sense of individuality as a person in your 30s
Instead of first-year students who have just tumbled into practical life and an adult world, in your 30s you are someone very different. You are healthy, mature and you know exactly who you are as a person.You see more of the world by your 30s and deal with things on a different level, that is to say with maturity, and you are not carried away by your emotions.So, it equips you better to deal with love and life in a sorted manner.
3.You know what you want
You are not a gullible young girl who will settle for anything that comes her way because she doesn’t know any better. You have been out and about in the world, and you have set standards. By the time you hit your 30s, you have a clear of an idea of ho you ant your life to be.
And you know that you cant waste time dating someone in your 30s when it’s not going anywhere, so the partner you marry will be one with whom you can have a scope for great future.
4.You’ve established self-confidence.
By bringing out the best in yourself, you feel a sense of achievement, and that boosts up your confidence and encourages you to find the right guy for yourself.
5.You have a voice of your own.
In your 20s, you face pressure from friends, family, and society to follow the norm. In your 30s, you dare to take a stand and break free from the shackles. And that will lead you to your destination.
Love is not enough when you live in a real world and not a make-believe one. You are in a struggling phase in your 20s; you don’t have a lot of skills or experience to be able to earn enough to make a decent life. There will always be a need to make compromises over one wish or another to prepare for a bare minimum, and that is not the kind of strain you want to put on a marriage.
You have a better chance of a successful marriage if you are financially secure, this makes you independent. You don’t have to be dependent on someone for little things you may want in life and live your life with dignity.
7.You’re more secure in your 30s.
You have a full-fledged career, a strong personality which gives you security and provides you with time to focus on your marriage.
8.You’ve lived alone.
Either with a roommate or your love, you’ve experienced a great deal and have become a responsible adult. You don’t have to learn this while adjusting to marriage.
Consider these aspects and marry only when you are ready.There is no rush because it is your life and only you have the right to determine its course.